When my sons attended the Gann Academy, The New Jewish High School
in Boston, and I drove the carpool, I would stay and daven with them. The
mechitza minyan was held in a room that had a lot of books and magazines. I
think it was a library, but I am not sure. When I was done davening, I went to
get a book I wanted to read. Without thinking, I walked in front of somebody
who wasn’t finished saying his silent Amidah. After services a teacher pulled
me aside and reminded me of prayer etiquette. One should not walk in front of
another person who is engrossed in his prayers. The source is found in today’s
daf TB Berachot 27.
The Gemara relates: Rav
happened by the house of the Sage, Geniva, and he prayed the Shabbat
prayer on the eve of Shabbat before nightfall. Rabbi Yirmeya bar Abba
was praying behind Rav, and Rav finished his prayer but did not take
three steps back and interrupt the prayer of Rabbi Yirmeya. Derive
from this incident three halakhot: Derive from this
that one may pray the Shabbat prayer on the eve of Shabbat before
nightfall. And derive from this that a student may pray behind his
rabbi. And derive from this that it is prohibited to pass before those
who are praying.
The Gemara responds:
This supports the opinion of Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi, as Rabbi
Yehoshua ben Levi said: It is prohibited to pass before those who are praying.
The Gemara asks: Is that so? Didn’t Rabbi Ami and Rabbi Asi pass before
those who were praying? The Gemara responds: Rabbi Ami and Rabbi Asi
were beyond four cubits from those who were praying when they passed. (Sefaria.com translation)
Since then I have been scrupulously observing this bit of Jewish
etiquette. Those who pay attention to me will see this in action. When I have
to go to the other side of the bimah as the Cantor is davening in the center of
the bimah by the Torah reading table, you will notice that I never walk in
front of him, but always walk behind him to get to the other side.
I encourage you to show a little consideration by not walking in
front of somebody davening unless there is a space of 4 amot (6.4 feet) you and
the davener. Otherwise, just wait until the davener has finished.
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