Sunday, December 5, 2021

The merit of not embarrassing somebody TB Taanit 22

Beginning on daf TB Taanit 21b and continuing on daf Taanit TB 22 we learn about Abba the Bloodletter. Until the late 19th century bloodletting was the treatment for most elements. Think of a bloodletter back then as a general physician. Because of the way Abba the Bloodletter conducted this practice, he received more heavenly attention than the two major scholars of his generation, Abaye and Rava. His example teaches us that we don't have to be great Torah scholars to feel God's presence in our lives. How we choose to live our lives makes all the difference in the world.

Apropos the above stories that deal with the merits of ordinary people, the Gemara relates: Abba the Bloodletter would receive greetings from the yeshiva on High every day, and Abaye would receive these greetings every Shabbat eve, and Rava would receive greetings only once a year on Yom Kippur eve. Abaye was distressed due to Abba the Bloodletter, as he did not understand why Abba received greater honor than he did. They said to him: You are unable to perform what he does, and therefore you do not merit the same honor.

"The Gemara asks: And what were these righteous deeds of Abba the Bloodletter? The Gemara explains that when he would perform a matter of bloodletting, he would bring in men separately from women, for reasons of modesty. And he had a special garment that had a slit in the place of the incision [kusilta] where the bloodletting instrument was inserted. When a woman came to him, he would have her dress in that garment, so that he would not see her exposed. And furthermore, he had a hidden place where he worked, where customers would place the coins [peshitei] that he would take as his fee. In this manner, one who had money would throw it there, while one who did not have money was not embarrassed. When a Torah scholar came to him for bloodletting, he would take no pay from him, and after the scholar arose, Abba would give him money and say to him: Go and purchase food with this money to heal yourself, as it is important to eat healthy food after bloodletting.

One day, Abaye sent a pair of Sages to investigate the extent of Abba the Bloodletter’s righteousness. Abba the Bloodletter sat them down, and gave them food to eat, and gave them something to drink. And at night he spread out mats [bistarkei] for them to sleep on. In the morning, the Sages rolled up these rugs and took them, and they arose and went out to the market with them. And when Abba found them, the Sages said to him: Let the Master appraise these rugs, how much they are worth. He said to them: Their value is such and such. They said to him: But perhaps they are worth more. He said to them: This is what I paid for them. They said to him: The rugs are yours and we took them from you.

After explaining the reason for their actions, the Sages said to him: Please tell us, what did you suspect of us? You knew that we had taken your rugs, and yet you did not say anything. He said to them: I said to myself, certainly an unexpected opportunity for a ransom of prisoners became available for the Sages, and they required immediate funds, but they were too embarrassed to say so to me or to ask for money. Instead, they took the rugs. The Sages said to him: Now that we have explained the situation, let the Master take back the rugs. He said to them: From that moment when I realized they were missing, I put them out of my mind and consigned them for charity. As far as I am concerned, they are already designated for that purpose, and I cannot take them back.” (Sefaria.org Translation)

Being conscious of not embarrassing somebody I think was one of his most outstanding qualities . He made sure those who cannot pay his fee was still received treatment and nobody would know whether they paid or not. That caught my eye was the special garment he created for women. In order not to expose them unnecessarily and bears them, “he had a special garment that had a slit in the place of the incision [kusilta] where the bloodletting instrument was inserted. When a woman came to him, he would have her dress in that garment, so that he would not see her exposed.”

Judy's second cousin Nancy is in oncology nurse and could be considered an Abba the Bloodletter of our day by the way she cared for her female patients. She saw when a woman would receive radiation the patient was not only uncomfortable, but also exposed. She created and patented special briefs that are comfortable and only expose the area that need treatment for modesty purposes. May she merit the opportunity to observe more mitzvot!



 

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