How do you feel about being Jewish? Are you proud or embarrassed?
Do you have a good Jewish self-image or poor self-image one? I teach Jewish
short stories in my adult education classes. Recently two of them have much to
say on this topic. The first story is Sholom Aleichem’s “On Account of a Hat.”
The second story is Aharon Megged’s “The Name.”
The hero of the “On Account of a Hat” is Sholem Shachnah. He
is a typical Jew of the Pale of Settlement eking out a livelihood. He falls
asleep next to some petty Russian official waiting for his train to take him
home erev Passover. Awakened, he reaches underneath the bench for his hat that
fell off only to pick up and put on the sleeping Russian official’s hat with
the red band and visor. Because of that hat everybody treats him respectfully
and calls him “Your Excellency.” Sholem can’t believe his ears and thinks
everybody is mocking him. “He has no idea why all these honors have suddenly been
heaped upon him-first class, salutes, Your Excellency. Can it be an account of
the real estate deal he just closed? That’s it! But wait a minute. His own
people, Jews, that is, honored him for this, it would be understandable. The
Gentiles! The conductor! The ticket agent! What is it to them? Maybe he’s
dreaming.” After the porter takes him to the first class carriage, he sees
himself for the first time in the mirror wearing that hat with the red band and
visor. He doesn’t see himself, but that Russian official. He concludes the porter
who was supposed to wake him up to catch the train woke up the wrong person! Before
the train moves out of the station Sholem disembarks. Since this is the last
train home before Passover, he has to spend the seders with strangers. Sholom
Aleichem is trying to tell his Jews that they have forgotten their own
self-worth.
In the story “The Name” Grandfather Zisskind’s son’s family
was murdered by the Nazis in the Holocaust. Grandfather Zisskind’s sabra granddaughter
Raya is pregnant and absolutely refuses to name her future son after his
grandson Mendele who was murdered by the Nazis. Speaking to her mother “What are
you talking about, Mother”-Raya rebelled against the thought-“a Ghetto name,
ugly, horrible! I wouldn’t even be capable of letting it cross my lips. Do you
want me to hate my child?” The new parents hate the name Mendele because they
were born in Israel. Grandfather Zisskind rails against this low self-image of
their fellow Jews Israelis have. “You were born here. Very nice…” said Grandfather
Zisskind with emotion. “So what of it? Was so remarkable about that? Are you
clever than they? More cultured? Are you greater than they in Torah good deeds
is your blood better than theirs?” Aharon Meged is trying to tell Israelis that
they become orphans in history if they denigrate their ancestors’self-worth.
We have been studying the laws of healing on Shabbat in
chapter 14 of massechet Shabbat. I believe that Rabbi Shimon on today’s daf TB
Shabbat 111 provides the antidote for low self-esteem. “One who is concerned
about pain in his loins may not smear wine and vinegar on them on
Shabbat because that is a medical treatment. However, one may smear oil
on them. However, one may not use rose oil, which is very
expensive and used exclusively as a cure. However, princes may smear
with rose oil on their wounds on Shabbat because it is their
usual manner to smear rose oil on themselves during the week for
pleasure. Rabbi Shimon says: All of the Jewish people are princes, and
it is permitted for them to smear rose oil on themselves on Shabbat.”
(Sefaria.org translation) We have a tremendous past to be proud of and a wonderful
future to look forward to. So the next time you look at yourself in the mirror
and don’t like what you see, remember you are descended from “royalty.”
By the way, with this daf we finish our chapter and begin
the 15th chapter of massechet Shabbat with deals with the
prohibition of tying and untying knots.
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