Monday, November 25, 2024

The words you choose matter TB Baba Batra 153

A person on his deathbed’s (shekhiv mayra’-שְׁכִיב מְרַע) gift is given on the condition that he dies. If he recovers, he can take back his gift. A healthy person’s gift is a revocable. Today’s daf TB Baba Batra 153 discusses the language of the gift document the shehiv mayra’ uses. A disagreement between Rav and Shmuel on the intent of the language.

§ The Gemara relates: There was a deed pertaining to a certain gift of a person on his deathbed, in which it was written that the gift is given both in life and in death (בַּחַיִּים וּבַמָּוֶת). In such a case, Rav says: It is like the gift of a person on his deathbed, and if he recovers he can retract it. And Shmuel says: It is like the gift of a healthy person, and he cannot retract it.

The Gemara explains: Rav says: It is like the gift of a person on his deathbed. This can be inferred from the fact that it is written in the deed that the gift is given in death. This means that the giver is saying to him that the gift should take effect after his death, and that which is written in the deed, that the gift is given in life, is merely an auspicious omen, expressing hope that the giver will live.

And Shmuel says: It is like the gift of a healthy person. This can be inferred from the fact that it is written in the deed that the gift is given in life. This means that the giver is saying that the gift takes effect during his life, i.e., immediately. And that which he wrote, that the gift is given in death, is like one who says: From now and for evermore, i.e., that the gift is not retractable. The Sages of Neharde’a say: The halakha is in accordance with the opinion of Rav.” (Sefaria.org translation)

What happens if the document reads during one’s life (מֵחַיִּים) instead of in life (בַּחַיִּים)? Rava rules that this new language changes everything. “Rava said: And if it was written in the deed that the gift is given during life and in death, the recipient acquires the gift and it cannot be retracted, as this term indicates that the gift takes effect while the giver still lives.” (Sefaria.org translation) When signing a contract, you better make sure you understand the words before agreeing to it.

We believe that words have power. God created the entire universe with 10 statements (Genesis 1)   The following story shows that we should also watch what we say.

“The Gemara relates: There was a certain woman who wrote in the deed that the gift is given during life and in death. She came before Rava. Rava acted with regard to her case in accordance with his halakhic ruling, and he ruled that she cannot retract the gift. She did not accept the ruling, and she constantly troubled him, saying that he had not judged her case properly.

“Rava said to Rav Pappa, his scribe, son of Rav Ḥanan: Go, write for her a ruling in her favor, and write in the ruling the phrase: He may hire replacements at their expense, or deceive them to get them to return to work. This is a phrase from the mishna (Bava Metzia 75b) that discusses the ruling in the case of one who hired laborers to perform a task that cannot be delayed, and they quit. Rava intended this phrase to indicate to the court that the ruling was merely a ruse in order to persuade the woman to leave. The woman understood the ruse. She said: May his ship sink; you are deceiving me. Rava had his clothes immersed in water so that the curse should be fulfilled in this alternative manner, but even so he was not saved from the sinking of his ship.” (Sefaria.org translation)

This woman cursed Rava and her curse came true. From the story is seems to me that Rava drowned. Nevertheless, I found this interesting tidbit on Wikipedia. “Jewish tradition holds that Rava and his study companion Abaye are buried in a cave shown on Har Yavnit (Ovnit).” (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rava_(amora)) I don’t know whether he drowned and they recovered his body or he died and was buried like Jews of his era. Either way we should be very careful what we say because words can never be retracted. Words have the power of their own.

 

 

 

 

 

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