Wednesday, August 30, 2023

How are you tending the garden of your heart? #parashatkitavo#devartorah#parashathashavua

The Secret Garden, a novel by Frances Hodgson Burnett, tells the story of Mary, a young girl who goes to live with her wealthy uncle Archibald on his estate in England. Mary gets to know Dickon, a working-class boy who loves nature. The two children discover a fenced-in garden that Mary’s uncle has locked up because it reminds him of his deceased wife. The garden looks dead because of neglect, but Dickon assures Mary that, with proper tending, it will recover with new life. With the children’s help, “the secret garden” eventually bursts forth with colorful, fragrant blooms.

All of us have a secret garden of the heart. How we tend it will determine what speech and behavior it produces. Proverbs wisely admonishes us: “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life” (Prov. 4:23). The word keep means “to watch or guard with fidelity.” Guarding what we take into our hearts and monitoring our response will determine what takes root there. As we remove the thorns of resentment, weeds of lust, and roots of bitterness, we can replace them with the fruit from our Jewish heritage: love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.

This week’s Torah portion Ki Tavo contains the tokhakha which enumerates the consequences of our actions. Our actions will determine whether blessings or curses will rain down upon us. What a wonderful reminder what will determine whether the new year 5784 will be a good one or not. As you are preparing for our High Holidays, how are you tending the garden of your heart?

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