Friday, April 21, 2023

G is for gossip

Inventor with R. G. LeTourneau is known for his enormous earth-moving machines. One of his products was known simply by the name, “Model G.” A prospective buyer, hoping to stump a salesman, asked, “What does the ‘G’ stand for?”

“I guess the G stands for gossip,” was the salesman’s quick reply. “Because, like gossip, this machine moves a lot of dirt, and moves it fast!”

“Playing on the linguistic similarity of the Hebrew for ‘leper’ (m’tzora) and the Hebrew for one who gossips (motzi shem ra), the sages consider leprosy to be a punishment for the sins of slander and malicious gossip (Lev. R 16:1)”(Etz Hayyim commentary below the line, page 652) The Book of Proverbs as a lot to say about gossip: Those who gossip are untrustworthy (11:13) and should be avoided (20:19). Gossip separates the closest of friends (16:28) and keeps relational strife boiling (18:8). It pours fuel on the coals of conflict, feeding the flames of hurt and misunderstanding (26:21-22).

Who doesn’t know from experience that gossip is a damaging whisper. We fool ourselves into thinking that those juicy, whispered comments here and there are harmless. But gossip leaves behind a wide swath of destruction and is never a victimless crime. Someone is always hurt. So here’s a word to the wise: “Where there is no talebearer, strife ceases” (Prov. 26:20). Let’s leave the dirt-moving to big machines. Put the shovels away and revel in the joy of gossip-free relationships!

 

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