Today’s
daf TB Baba Metzia 84 recounts the famous relationship between Rabbi Yoḥanan and Reish Lakish.
The Gemara relates: One day,
Rabbi Yoḥanan was bathing in the Jordan River. Reish Lakish saw him and
jumped into the Jordan, pursuing him. At that time, Reish Lakish was the
leader of a band of marauders. Rabbi Yoḥanan said to Reish Lakish: Your
strength is fit for Torah study. Reish Lakish said to him: Your
beauty is fit for women. Rabbi Yoḥanan said to him: If you return
to the pursuit of Torah, I will give you my sister in marriage, who
is more beautiful than I am. Reish Lakish accepted upon himself to
study Torah. Subsequently, Reish Lakish wanted to jump back out of the
river to bring back his clothes, but he was unable to return, as
he had lost his physical strength as soon as he accepted the responsibility to
study Torah upon himself.
Rabbi Yoḥanan taught Reish
Lakish Bible, and taught him Mishna, and turned him into a great man.
Eventually, Reish Lakish became one of the outstanding Torah scholars of his
generation. One day the Sages of the study hall were engaging in a
dispute concerning the following baraita: With regard to the
sword, the knife, the dagger [vehapigyon], the spear, a hand sickle, and
a harvest sickle, from when are they susceptible to ritual impurity? The baraita
answers: It is from the time of the completion of their manufacture,
which is the halakha with regard to metal vessels in general.
These Sages inquired: And when is
the completion of their manufacture? Rabbi Yoḥanan says: It is from when
one fires these items in the furnace. Reish Lakish said: It is from
when one scours them in water, after they have been fired in the furnace.
Rabbi Yoḥanan said to Reish Lakish: A bandit knows about his
banditry, i.e., you are an expert in weaponry because you were a bandit in
your youth. Reish Lakish said to Rabbi Yoḥanan: What benefit did you
provide me by bringing me close to Torah? There, among the bandits, they
called me: Leader of the bandits, and here, too, they call me: Leader
of the bandits. Rabbi Yoḥanan said to him: I provided benefit to you, as I
brought you close to God, under the wings of the Divine Presence.
As a result of the quarrel, Rabbi
Yoḥanan was offended, which in turn affected Reish Lakish, who fell
ill. Rabbi Yoḥanan’s sister, who was Reish Lakish’s wife, came
crying to Rabbi Yoḥanan, begging that he pray for Reish Lakish’s recovery. She
said to him: Do this for the sake of my children, so that they
should have a father. Rabbi Yoḥanan said to her the verse: “Leave
your fatherless children, I will rear them” (Jeremiah 49:11), i.e., I will
take care of them. She said to him: Do so for the sake of my
widowhood. He said to her the rest of the verse: “And let your widows
trust in Me.”
Ultimately, Rabbi Shimon ben
Lakish, Reish Lakish, died. Rabbi Yoḥanan was sorely pained over
losing him. The Rabbis said: Who will go to calm Rabbi Yoḥanan’s mind
and comfort him over his loss? They said: Let Rabbi Elazar ben Pedat go, as
his statements are sharp, i.e., he is clever and will be able to serve as a
substitute for Reish Lakish.
Rabbi Elazar ben Pedat went and
sat before Rabbi Yoḥanan. With regard to every matter that Rabbi Yoḥanan
would say, Rabbi Elazar ben Pedat would say to him: There is a
ruling which is taught in a baraita that supports your
opinion. Rabbi Yoḥanan said to him: Are you comparable to the
son of Lakish? In my discussions with the son of Lakish, when I would
state a matter, he would raise twenty-four difficulties against me in an
attempt to disprove my claim, and I would answer him with twenty-four
answers, and the halakha by itself would become broadened and
clarified. And yet you say to me: There is a ruling which is
taught in a baraita that supports your opinion. Do I not
know that what I say is good? Being rebutted by Reish Lakish served a
purpose; your bringing proof to my statements does not. (Sefaria.org translation)
This story raises a lot of difficult
questions. Yitchak Blau answers some of these difficulties in his book Fresh
Fruit and Vintage Wine. I would like to share with you his comment on their
harsh responses to each other while discussing a fine point in halakha.
“I
believe that the key to the story lies in the exchange between Rabbi Yoḥanan
and Rabbi Elazar . The latter tries to console Rabbi Yoḥanan by citing proofs
for everything Rabbi Yoḥanan says. Rabbi Yoḥanan is incredulous that Rabbi
Elazar thinks this will replace Reish Lakish. It was precisely the ongoing
argumentation between Rabbi Yoḥanan and Reish Lakish that led to a flowering of
Torah. This is what Rabbi Yoḥanan feels cannot be replaced. Rabbi Yoḥanan is
teaching us that the ideal chavruta is
not the person who quickly endorses everything his study partner says. On the
contrary! The ideal chuvruta challenges
one’s ideas. This process generates growth in learning. We should add the same
principle also applies to other forms of friendship. Instead of looking for
friends who will always agree with us, we should seek out those who are willing
to tell us when they think we have erred, whether intellectually, ethically, or
religiously.
“Assuming
that the preceding idea reflects the essential theme of the story, we can now
understand the harsh exchange. If the ideal study partnership involves
argument, then there is a lurking danger that the arguing will get out of hand.
In the heat of a verbal dispute, people will say things that they later regret
that can no longer take back. Thus, the very strength of the partnership of Rabbi
Yoḥanan and Reish Lakish was the source of his downfall, as they temporally
lost themselves the passion of the music debate…
“The
possibility of having such productive interactions without resorting to harsh
or insulting words is a challenge beckoning to all of us.” (pages 66-68)
Primary
elections have confirmed that the 2024 elections will be a rematch between
Pres. Biden and past Pres. Trump. When we vote in November for the next
president of the United States, this story of Rabbi Yoḥanan, Rabbi Elazar , and
Reish Lakish teaches us before we vote we should not only look at these two
men, but who will be their advisors as well. We need people to challenge the President’s
decisions to make sure that he hasn’t erred intellectually, ethically, and
legally. A president who only wants loyal sycophants who always agree with him as
advisors will surely will lead our country to disaster. Such a man is a danger
to our democracy as well.